7 chapters
Becoming a dom
Persona, rules, limits, platforms and the first sub.
Chapters
Build a persona
A persona is a character with a rulebook. Here’s how to write down her rules, her voice and her look before your first post, and where a persona’s design starts to pull on the subs it serves.
Art for your persona
A drawn persona needs art you have the right to use. Here’s how a paid artist, generated images and an existing character compare, and the two lines that never move.
Stay anonymous
A drawn face can’t leak, but files, names, accounts, tools and payments can. Here’s where the person behind a persona gets exposed, where anonymity ends, and why access to your accounts is never part of the game.
Getting paid
A drawn persona hides a face, but the payout still has your name on it. Here’s how the money moves, what each platform’s own terms say as of 2026-11-03, why disguising adult payments fails, and how to pick a payment route, share money and plan for fees and tax.
Posting and workflows
Posting decides less than people hope. This chapter covers marking adult media on X, spreading the risk across accounts, a rhythm you can keep, and the pressure tricks to spot as a reader.
Tools and apps
A persona runs on ordinary software: editors, link pages, bots, games and, at the risky end, tools that move money. Here’s what each kind is for and what to check before it touches your accounts or your subs.
Your first sub
A first sub is a person with a bank account who agreed to a game. This chapter covers the frame, the limit, the consent conversation, and how to let him go.
