4 chapters
For subs
Budgets, limits, red flags and how to find a real dom.
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Chapters
Before your first send
What a tribute is, what it buys, and the three things to settle before any money leaves your account: what the money is, what your limit is, and how you stop.
Choosing a dom
A drawn persona is easy to like and hard to check. Judge her by what she writes down, what she asks for, and what she does the first time you say no.
What a persona is
A persona is a character built and kept by someone. Her words are play. Your money, your time and your feelings are real.
Ending well
Anyone can leave, pause or change the terms, on either side of the screen. A good ending is short, kind and final. A crisis is something else, and it needs people outside the game.
