5 chapters
Safety
The spiral of addiction, breaks that hold, and where to get help.
Free, confidential helplines exist in most countries.
Chapters
The spiral
Addiction rarely hits all at once. It tightens one turn at a time, and every turn has a way out.
Breaks that hold
A break holds when it doesn’t live only in your head. It’s in your bank, in a server and with a person who knows the truth. This page shows which brakes work, which fail, and what a safe tool looks like.
Where to get help
Official services for danger, crisis, gambling-type spending and debt in eight countries, what a call is like, and why a dom or a persona is never the help.
If you already sent
You sent money and you wish you hadn’t. Here are the first steps, what to avoid, what to do if you shared access, and what to expect from a decent dom.
When a sub is in trouble
A dom who’s paid by a sub can’t be his safety net. Here’s what she can do instead, what to do in a crisis, and which pressure moves to refuse.
